|Don't you love my Mass behavior, Dad?! No? Well, here is a kiss to make up for it.|
Over the past few days, both Chris and I have read blog posts that addressed the importance of children at Mass. We couldn't agree more! Even though we err on the side of caution concerning Ryan's exuberance and the rest of the congregation's ability to focus on the Mass and remove Ryan temporarily when you know what is about to hit the altar (does that adaptation of the real phrase make any sense?...bear with me...), we think it is so essential to bring little ones to the public heart of our faith. I'm not going to expand more because Mandi and Christy have already done such a fantastic job illustrating this point. You can head on over to their lovely blogs and have a read.
So! I was thinking back on all of our Masses since Ryan has banished us from staying in the pew for the whole Mass, and I remembered a few, "Mass Angels," who set my crazy heartbeat of a sweating and terrified-of-fellow-parishioner parent back at a normal beating level of thankful relief. Here are a few gems:
-1-After Ryan's stellar Mass performance at a wedding, I was relaying the story to one of the bride's aunts. She nodded understandingly since she had seven children and replied, "Well, this church is so family friendly, it doesn't even have a cry room."
My inner reaction was, "Oooooohhh!" I had thought while I was huddled in the cold lobby that the breathtaking church didn't have a cry room simply because it was over a hundred years old when, in fact, they were being incredibly welcome to children by sending the message, "Hey! Don't go anywhere else!" in a much more eloquent and subdued fashion.
-2-When we were at Mass at one of the older local parishes here in South Bend, Ryan was seriously the only person under fifteen there, and most of the parishioners at Mass that day were my parents' age and older. Ryan was cooing (at increasing levels) as I carried him down the aisle so I could receive communion, and I was mortified. A kind, elderly woman leaned over to me, smiled and whispered, "Just listen to him! He is singing! He wants to sing!"
-3-Mass had just ended at the Basilica, and Ryan's behavior had been a doozy so it was the usual dance of pew --> lobby --> pew --> lobby. The professor who had been sitting in front of us turned around once Mass had ended and told us a story.
He had gone to Jerusalem for research and was attending Sunday Mass. A local hermit who spent all of his time silently praying in recluse was there as well as a crying baby. After Mass, the hermit looked at our Mass neighbor and declared, "It will be a sad day for the Church when we don't hear babies crying at Mass."
-4-Just this past Sunday at Mass, a well-known priest on campus was behind us in the communion line. Ryan was quite the talker. Afterwards, the priest chuckled, "He must want to be a priest! He wants to talk during Mass!"
Do you have any stories of Mass Angels?